ADHD and Emotional Dysregulation
Understand overwhelm, anger, rejection sensitivity, shame spirals and difficulty calming down.
Online CBT for ADHD UK
ADHD Burnout
Specialist online CBT for adults with ADHD who feel exhausted, overwhelmed, emotionally drained, unable to keep up, stuck in avoidance, or caught between over-functioning and collapse.
Adult ADHD burnout
ADHD burnout can build after years of pushing, masking and trying to keep everything together.
ADHD burnout in adults can feel like chronic exhaustion, emotional shutdown, overwhelm, low motivation, avoidance, irritability, brain fog or a sense that even ordinary tasks are too much. It often follows long periods of masking, overcompensating, perfectionism, executive dysfunction and trying to meet expectations that do not fit how your brain works.
This is not laziness or a lack of care. ADHD overwhelm can be a sign that your coping system has been overloaded for too long.
ADHD emotional dysregulation
Burnout often sits in a cycle of pressure, shame and collapse.
Many adults with ADHD describe moving between intense effort and sudden shutdown. Perfectionism, people-pleasing, shame and self-criticism can push you to over-function, while executive dysfunction and ADHD emotional dysregulation make recovery harder once you are depleted.
Masking, overcompensating or perfectionism
Chronic overwhelm and executive dysfunction
Emotional exhaustion, shutdown or avoidance
Shame and self-criticism increase pressure
Over-functioning starts again until collapse returns
ADHD and addiction
Burnout can increase addictive or compulsive coping cycles.
When you are exhausted and emotionally drained, quick relief can become more appealing. Burnout can increase alcohol use, cannabis use, binge eating, compulsive spending, gambling, avoidance, doom-scrolling or other dopamine-seeking behaviours. These behaviours may make sense as attempts to switch off, soothe or escape, but they can also deepen shame and make functioning harder afterwards.
ADHD therapy UK
CBT can help you recognise burnout patterns and build realistic ways forward.
CBT can help you map the pattern between pressure, thoughts, emotions, avoidance, routines, coping behaviours and self-criticism. The aim is not to push harder, but to understand what keeps burnout going and create strategies that are realistic for ADHD.
Therapy may focus on reducing self-criticism, improving emotional regulation, building routines that are sustainable, planning recovery time, changing unhelpful coping cycles, and developing more compassionate accountability when things feel overwhelming.
Specialist online CBT
Support with Cally Farrer, BABCP-accredited CBT therapist.
Cally Farrer is a BABCP-accredited CBT therapist with 15 years experience in various clinical roles, including mental health and substance misuse services. Online CBT therapy is available across the UK for adults looking for calm, practical support with ADHD burnout, adult ADHD burnout, ADHD overwhelm, ADHD emotional dysregulation and ADHD and addiction patterns.
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- adult ADHD burnout
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- ADHD and addiction
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Free 15-minute consultation
A first conversation can help you decide what support might fit.
You are welcome to get in touch without pressure or judgement.